Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s.
As a bisexual woman in her late 20s, I have to say that I have a much stronger preference for women in their 30s than women in their 20s.
Women in their 20s are beautiful, of course. This isn't a post about bashing women in their 20s (hell, I am a woman in her 20s).
I want to take a moment to appreciate the beauty of 30+ women.
We live in a culture that is so hard on women simply for aging. Search on Google or YouTube "why you shouldn't date a woman over 30" and you'll come up with thousands of results. This is a topic that has been extensively discussed in redpill/manosphere spaces for years. Their main reasons for hating women over 30 is the belief that 30+ are all fat, ugly, infertile, undesirable, "cannot be trained and molded" etc.
In terms of physical appearance, I find that women who remain unmarried tend to look better in their 30s than women who are dating or married to low value men. Being in a relationship with a toxic/lazy man is stressful and may understandably lead to weight gain and premature aging. This is why you see so many women glow up when they leave their shitty boyfriends. It's not the woman's age that's making her ugly, it's her toxic manchild dragging her down.
Second, I find that women tend to level up their appearance as they get older. The older you are, the more money you have, and the more experience you have developing your fashion sense and makeup skills. I look at pictures of myself in my late teens and early 20s and I cringe at how badly I used to apply makeup, and how I used to wear cheap "fast fashion" trends that didn't even flatter my body type or skin tone. Now that I'm a grownup, I can afford better quality clothes that actually fit my body, and I choose timeless classic pieces with colors that compliment my skin undertone (20 y/o me be like "what is color theory?"
). My makeup application has gotten more skilled and elegant, too. That's what I love about 30+ women, they have more money and knowledge to put together their own signature style.
Another thing I love about 30+ women is the emotional maturity, confidence, and knowing what they want. In my personal (and somewhat limited) experiences dating other women, I find that women in their early/mid 20s are more unsure of themselves, their lives a little less stable, and can sometimes waffle a bit (harder to tell if they like me). Their emotional maturity is low (in an age appropriate way) because they're at that experimental point in their lives where they're figuring things out, and that's okay, it's just not my preference when dating.
Women who are older than me often have this wonderfully unshakeable self-confidence. It's just so damn sexy. They are more emotionally mature, their lives are more stable, and because they've already been through the experimentation phase, they've figured out what they want. I love how they are more direct, no bullshit, just cut to the chase. There's not as much uncertainty in their feelings for you. If they like you, you'll know it. If they don't like you, you'll know it. I feel more reassured when dating a woman who is older than me.
Even as I am typing this out, it is dawning on me that the reasons why I like older women are the exact same reasons why low value men dislike 30+ women. A low value man wants a woman who is emotionally immature because he is emotionally immature himself. Men who are predatory tend to want a woman who is unconfident and unsure of herself. They specifically want to interrupt the experimental phase of a young woman's life because they want to "train" her to be his ideal woman/servant. He wants a young girl who doesn't know what she wants because he wants to condition her into believing that what he wants is the only thing that matters. A woman with less life experience is more easily manipulated, controlled, and abused. A low value man wants to be able to exploit the instability in a 20-something year old woman's life, for his own benefit.
That's why low value men prefer women in their 20s, so that they can be the one to corrupt and traumatize her. They don't like women in their 30s because she's already been through all that and has learned that she doesn't have to put up with his bullshit.
It's also the reason why men love to push this narrative that women expire on their 30th birthday. It serves male interests in two ways: 1) It creates a sense of urgency to pressure young women to settle down ASAP, and 2) it cripples women's self worth when we see ourselves as a depreciating asset, leading us to lower our standards and tolerate poor treatment from men no matter our age.
I say FUCK that shit.
Ladies, if you are in your 20s, know that it's okay to take the time you need to figure things out. There is no need to feel anxious about the future. Life will get better as you get older, not worse. I promise. You are not a "depreciating asset" you are a human being: the older you get the more time you've had to level up physically and emotionally. Do not squander that time trying to mould yourself into the perfect bangmaid for some shitty man. Focus on yourself and on living your best possible life, with or without a man.
Ladies, if you are in your 30s, I want you to internalize the fact that you are beautiful, and that your beauty is based on more than just the number on your birth certificate. You don't need to make yourself smaller to please a man. You don't need to lower your standards just to "keep" a man. So long as you're putting in the work to be a high value woman inside and out, that's all that matters. You don't need the approval of low value men because their opinions are worthless. Focus on yourself and on living your best possible life, with or without a man.
As a bisexual woman in her late 20s, I have to say that I have a much stronger preference for women in their 30s than women in their 20s.
Women in their 20s are beautiful, of course. This isn't a post about bashing women in their 20s (hell, I am a woman in her 20s).
I want to take a moment to appreciate the beauty of 30+ women.
We live in a culture that is so hard on women simply for aging. Search on Google or YouTube "why you shouldn't date a woman over 30" and you'll come up with thousands of results. This is a topic that has been extensively discussed in redpill/manosphere spaces for years. Their main reasons for hating women over 30 is the belief that 30+ are all fat, ugly, infertile, undesirable, "cannot be trained and molded" etc.
In terms of physical appearance, I find that women who remain unmarried tend to look better in their 30s than women who are dating or married to low value men. Being in a relationship with a toxic/lazy man is stressful and may understandably lead to weight gain and premature aging. This is why you see so many women glow up when they leave their shitty boyfriends. It's not the woman's age that's making her ugly, it's her toxic manchild dragging her down.
Second, I find that women tend to level up their appearance as they get older. The older you are, the more money you have, and the more experience you have developing your fashion sense and makeup skills. I look at pictures of myself in my late teens and early 20s and I cringe at how badly I used to apply makeup, and how I used to wear cheap "fast fashion" trends that didn't even flatter my body type or skin tone. Now that I'm a grownup, I can afford better quality clothes that actually fit my body, and I choose timeless classic pieces with colors that compliment my skin undertone (20 y/o me be like "what is color theory?"
). My makeup application has gotten more skilled and elegant, too. That's what I love about 30+ women, they have more money and knowledge to put together their own signature style.Another thing I love about 30+ women is the emotional maturity, confidence, and knowing what they want. In my personal (and somewhat limited) experiences dating other women, I find that women in their early/mid 20s are more unsure of themselves, their lives a little less stable, and can sometimes waffle a bit (harder to tell if they like me). Their emotional maturity is low (in an age appropriate way) because they're at that experimental point in their lives where they're figuring things out, and that's okay, it's just not my preference when dating.
Women who are older than me often have this wonderfully unshakeable self-confidence. It's just so damn sexy. They are more emotionally mature, their lives are more stable, and because they've already been through the experimentation phase, they've figured out what they want. I love how they are more direct, no bullshit, just cut to the chase. There's not as much uncertainty in their feelings for you. If they like you, you'll know it. If they don't like you, you'll know it. I feel more reassured when dating a woman who is older than me.
Even as I am typing this out, it is dawning on me that the reasons why I like older women are the exact same reasons why low value men dislike 30+ women. A low value man wants a woman who is emotionally immature because he is emotionally immature himself. Men who are predatory tend to want a woman who is unconfident and unsure of herself. They specifically want to interrupt the experimental phase of a young woman's life because they want to "train" her to be his ideal woman/servant. He wants a young girl who doesn't know what she wants because he wants to condition her into believing that what he wants is the only thing that matters. A woman with less life experience is more easily manipulated, controlled, and abused. A low value man wants to be able to exploit the instability in a 20-something year old woman's life, for his own benefit.
That's why low value men prefer women in their 20s, so that they can be the one to corrupt and traumatize her. They don't like women in their 30s because she's already been through all that and has learned that she doesn't have to put up with his bullshit.
It's also the reason why men love to push this narrative that women expire on their 30th birthday. It serves male interests in two ways: 1) It creates a sense of urgency to pressure young women to settle down ASAP, and 2) it cripples women's self worth when we see ourselves as a depreciating asset, leading us to lower our standards and tolerate poor treatment from men no matter our age.
I say FUCK that shit.
Ladies, if you are in your 20s, know that it's okay to take the time you need to figure things out. There is no need to feel anxious about the future. Life will get better as you get older, not worse. I promise. You are not a "depreciating asset" you are a human being: the older you get the more time you've had to level up physically and emotionally. Do not squander that time trying to mould yourself into the perfect bangmaid for some shitty man. Focus on yourself and on living your best possible life, with or without a man.
Ladies, if you are in your 30s, I want you to internalize the fact that you are beautiful, and that your beauty is based on more than just the number on your birth certificate. You don't need to make yourself smaller to please a man. You don't need to lower your standards just to "keep" a man. So long as you're putting in the work to be a high value woman inside and out, that's all that matters. You don't need the approval of low value men because their opinions are worthless. Focus on yourself and on living your best possible life, with or without a man.
